Love the One You are with…

Love the One You are with…

Love the One You are with… Outside the realm of the fairy tales, committed-relationships come with difficulties and challenges. That is at least what I have learned from my personal and professional experience.Cinderella and Prince Charming seem so sweet together, yet...
Safe Place and Bomb Shelter

Safe Place and Bomb Shelter

Safe Place and Bomb Shelter Where do you feel safe? Some people feel safe by the sea watching the waves and smelling the salt and the foam. Feeling the soft sand under their bare feet might add comfort and calmness for some. Others feel safe in the dimmer light of a...
When you are unhappy, I am unhappy…

When you are unhappy, I am unhappy…

WHEN YOU ARE UNHAPPY, I AM UNHAPPY… When you are unhappy, I am unhappy… Does this phrase sound familiar? Unfortunately, many couples relate to each other from this assumption. They might or even consider it a mutual commitment, namely, to mirror each other’s bad...
Of the Terrible Doubt

Of the Terrible Doubt

Of the Terrible Doubt Of the terrible doubt of appearances,Of the uncertainty after all, that we may be deluded,That may-be reliance and hope are but speculations after all…~Walt Whitman~ The majority of people are yearning for more intimacy and affection in their...
Very Brief Therapy

Very Brief Therapy

Very Brief Therapy: The miracle at the pool of Bethesda “Psychotherapy” literally means care of the soul. It is about healing, returning to a previous healthy state, and as a result, being made whole again. In our age, the process of healing is most often described...
The Woman Taken In Adultery

The Woman Taken In Adultery

The Woman Taken In Adultery The bible (John 8:3-8:11) tells us the following story:And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst, They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the...